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Are You Too Picky?
Are you too picky? The math behind selective dating standards, which filters cost the most, and how to decide without the shame spiral.
Picky vs precise
“Too picky” is a social judgment. Selectiveness is a number. This site only claims the second.
If your pool is small and you are unhappy with outcomes, the data helps you choose: wait longer, widen one filter, or invest in channels that reach rare profiles.
Highest-impact levers
Height floors, income floors, and narrow age bands usually dominate. Soft prefs (looks importance, dealbreakers) nudge strictness more than census rarity.